90% of your success is going to come from how and what you think.
And in turn this will determine how you respond to challenges. And don't think there aren't going to be challenges building your business.
But even beyond that. Having the proper mindset for anything will determine your success or failure no matter what you want to accomplish.
Before you go any farther you need to understand one thing.
You Are Where You Are Right Now Because Of What You're Giving Your Focus To, Good Or Bad
Whether you're aware of it or not, there is a powerful force in your life. And it is the Law Of Attraction.
At this very moment, it’s attracting, people, money, situations, careers and relationships into your life.
And not all of it’s good.
Have you noticed sometimes things just seem to fall into place and you don’t know why? Maybe you’ve been thinking about someone and then you run into them?
Maybe you’ve met your perfect mate and chalked it up to fate or being in the right place at the right time?
It’s all evidence of the Law of Attraction at work in your life.
What if you could have the relationship you wanted? More money? The ideal career? A prosperous business?
Everything you desired. How would that change things for you?
What if you could actually control what you attracted in your life?
Actually, you can.
You can have more of what you want and less of what you don’t want, and it can happen in a heartbeat.
So what is the law of attraction?
The Law of Attraction is vibrations.
You’re constantly giving off feelings (vibrations) either positive or negative. It’s important for you to be in touch with and be aware of your vibrations. They’re directly proportionate to your quality of life.
The law of attraction will respond to whatever vibration you give out. Good or bad it doesn't’t matter. Whatever you’re vibrating, that’s what you’ll get more of. Most of the time, we’re not even aware of our own vibrations.
“What we focus on is what we get whether it’s wanted or unwanted”
That means whatever you give attention, focus and energy to will come into your life.
How do you generate these vibrations? Words are the power behind this.
Understand that words carry a vibration for the person who thinks or says them. Once you become aware of your choice of words and their importance in your life, the sooner you’ll start attracting the things you desire.
Your words affect how you communicate with yourself, and therefore, what you experience. You talk to yourself more then you talk to anyone else so you ABSOLUTELY must realize the power that your words command. So choose them wisely.
What if you could take your most positive emotions and intensify them, taking your life to a higher level?
What if you could take all the negative emotions and lower their intensity?
How would your life be?
So how do you know if you’re sending out positive or negative vibrations in any area of your life?
Well … what are you receiving? If you’re in a bad relationship, lack of money, or have an unfulfilling career, it’s due to the vibrations you give out, which stems from your words.
How do you stop this pattern of negative thinking?
Simply by changing your habitual vocabulary (words) you use to describe the emotions in your life, you can immediately change how you think, feel and how you live.
It’s important to realize that words shape your beliefs and impact your actions. People will cling to their beliefs for dear life - even when they are wrong!
Take control of your life right now!
When you make a statement with the words, not, don’t, won’t, no, can’t … you actually give attention and focus to what you don’t want.
What if I said to you, “Don’t think of the color blue.”
You’re now thinking of the color blue, 100% for sure.
Your conscious and unconscious mind edited out the “don’t”. So when you hear or say to yourself… Don’t worry. Don’t smoke. Don’t forget. This won’t hurt… you just give more attention to what you don’t want.
So what do you say to yourself?
Maybe right now you're saying to yourself “Why can’t I be successful?” When you ask yourself a question using words like that the answer you get back is usually something like:
“I can’t because I’m not smart enough”
“I can’t because I’m not educated enough”
“I can’t because I was not prepared”
“I can’t because I have no money”
Wow!! How disempowering are those answers? Your brain is like a computer. “Garbage In Garbage Out” If you ask yourself a bad question, you’ll get a bad answer.
Choose better words to ask a better question and you’ll get a better answer.
Simple but, oh, so powerful!
Just change the words.
Instead of saying “Why can’t I be successful”
Change it to “What changes do I need to make in order to become successful?”
What answers do you think you get now? Ask a better question and get a better answer.
Or put a statement into the past. For example “I can’t make any money” Change that to “In the past, it was hard to make money”.
Other examples
“I hate” becomes “I prefer”.
“Failure” becomes “Getting educated”.
“Overwhelmed” becomes “Challenged”.
“Depressed” becomes “Not on top of it”.
“Rejected” becomes “Misunderstood”.
We all use words and phrases everyday that dis-empower us and attract things we don’t want. Just replace them with words and phrases that empower you.
Words create emotions. And those emotions create our experiences, which shape’s your destiny. So why not create emotions and experiences that attract the things you want in your life?